Let’s pretend that your family has decided to foster or adopt a child. The child has been in and out of houses and families. You’re a good person - so you want what’s best for that child no matter the cost to you. You also believe that welcoming that child into your family is what’s best for your kids, your spouse, and your marriage. You know it’s going to be super hard and you don’t know what the end result will be. You are scared. You are worried. But you have committed to love this child so that this child will be able to have the best thing a person can have - unconditional love. You want your family to grow in love and showing love to a child who needs it is the way to do this. And baby you are the one who’s going to provide it. It will cost, but you are ready for it. You are willing to walk through the fire. So the day comes for that child to join your family. They are dropped off at your house. Wha...